Father Jacob Mlakar
Leading others to Jesus through sacraments, wisdom of the saints
Father Jacob Mlakar has been appointed to pastor both St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Jefferson and St. Frances of Rome Mission in Sparta.Tuesday, Oct. 22: Father Jacob Mlakar becomes pastor of St. Francis of Assisi Parish and St. Frances of Rome Mission
JEFFERSON — Father Jacob Mlakar was up late at Casa Santa Maria, a home for American priests studying in Rome, when he received the call that surprised him.
Monsignor Patrick Winslow, vicar general and chancellor of the Diocese of Charlotte, told him he’d been appointed to pastor St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Jefferson and St. Frances of Rome Mission in Sparta.
“I was surprised and excited to be made pastor. … It was a wonderful surprise,” said Father Mlakar, who had expected to remain an assistant pastor for a year or two more. “It gave me something to look forward to and made me all the more motivated to finish my studies.”
While it might seem daunting for a first-time pastor to take on two churches instead of one, Father Mlakar’s few months have proven a breath of fresh air for him.
“There’s a learning curve, but I am happy to serve the populations of the parish and the mission,” said the Ohio native, who earned his theology degree from the Pontifical University of St. Thomas.
“Being in Rome studying for a year, I didn’t hear many confessions. I didn’t do any anointings. Being back here, I was able to get back into those things because of my previous parish experience.”
After his ordination in 2020, Father Mlakar served as parochial vicar at St. Vincent de Paul Parish in Charlotte for a year and for two years at Holy Cross Parish in Kernersville before moving to Rome – an experience he says equipped him in both spiritual and practical ways for his ministry.
He recently shared observations from his few months as a pastor.
CNH: What does it mean to you to become a pastor?
Father MlakarFather Mlakar: It means a great deal. This is what I’ve wanted to be, especially to be pastor in the mountains. … There’s a lot of new things I’m learning, but I am definitely enjoying being back in parish ministry after earning my licentiate and being able to take more of a leadership role in the parish.
CNH: How did your studies this past year prepare you for your pastor role?
Father Mlakar: The licentiate and spiritual theology is all about the spiritual life, especially studying the writings of the saints. It was (taught) in the Dominican tradition, but we studied all the great spiritual writers.
That’s been extremely helpful in my preaching and the way I relate to people and the advice I give on the spiritual life. It’s a very good theological degree but also it is very practical for a parish priest to be able to get up and draw from the great wisdom of our spiritual tradition.
CNH: How have your first months as pastor been going?
Father Mlakar: They’ve definitely been busy, starting with moving into a new house and trying to keep a tidy house and clean office, and yet keep up with all the parish needs. I’ve been meeting with everyone to talk about the programs that are going on like faith formation, O.C.I.A. and the parish councils. They want to tell me about the good work they’re doing and see how I can support them. It’s a great example of people coming together and keeping the life of the parish flourishing.
We also began planning for the big liturgies like the Holy Hour, Vespers and Mass celebrating the 10th anniversary of our new church, plus the parish picnic afterward. A lot of it has been being there for the daily worship of God as I start to get into some of the bigger administrative responsibilities.
CNH: How have your years as a parochial vicar helped prepare you to be a pastor?
Father Mlakar: Gaining better familiarity with what I would call the human experience, especially meeting with people and ministering to them in their needs. That’s helped with the normal pastoral experience, being familiar with the sacraments.
Drawing on my experience as a parochial vicar, I was able to return to some of those things and build off routines and schedules.
CNH: What is your favorite part of being a priest?
Father Mlakar: Definitely visiting the sick and anointing the sick, because I was ordained during COVID, and when I was at St. Vincent de Paul, we were the go-to parish for one of the big hospitals in that area. At a time when many people weren’t able to get into the hospital to visit the sick, they actually were calling us pretty frequently to visit and administer the sacraments. That is a sacrament that’s always touching to administer, especially to those who are receiving it for the last time.
CNH: Can you share a part of your own spiritual life?
Father Mlakar: The everyday pastoral tasks up here involve a lot of driving. St. Frances of Rome Mission is about a 40-minute drive from St. Francis Parish in Jefferson. I’ve been on the road a lot, so I’ve had to learn how to use that time for reflection and renewal for prayer instead of listening to a podcast or something like that.
CNH: What are you reading?
Father Mlakar: During these first months as a pastor, I’ve developed a devotion to St. Gregory the Great. He has a book on pastoral care, so he has been my favorite saint recently. He was a pope in the early Middle Ages, and he wrote the go-to book for pastors even way back then, and it’s been used throughout Church history, so that’s been my spiritual reading, and he’s been my saint that I’ve been praying to and thinking about a lot.
— Annie Ferguson
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CHARLOTTE — This Nov. 3-9 marks the annual celebration of National Vocations Awareness Week across the United States. The week is dedicated to promoting vocations of priests, deacons and consecrated men and women religious (nuns and brothers) through prayer and education. It’s also a time to renew our prayers and support for those who are considering one of these vocations, which is particularly important for families of young adults.
“The influence of parents and grandparents can be so crucial in encouraging young men and women to discern a vocation,” said Father Brian Becker, vocations promoter with the Diocese of Charlotte and first-year program director at St. Joseph College Seminary. “First and foremost, the constant prayers and sacrifices of parents bear so much fruit for their children.”
Father Becker notes that parents and grandparents should never underestimate the impact of their encouragement. “So many young men and women that I speak with cite their parent’s explicit encouragement of vocational discernment as a help to them in finding God’s will. Many parents think, ‘Well, my son knows that I would be very happy if he entered seminary.’ But in fact, many young men and women need to hear this said again and again by their parents, to overcome the fears that they have of following God in this path. Don’t be afraid to give your children some extra encouragement!”
Currently, the Diocese of Charlotte has 46 seminarians discerning a call to the priesthood.
National Vocations Awareness Week began in 1976 when the U.S. bishops designated the 28th Sunday of the liturgical year for special recognition of those discerning vocations. In 2014, it was moved to the first full week of November.
Prayer for vocations
God our Father, we thank You for calling men and women to serve in Your Son’s Kingdom as priests, deacons and consecrated persons.
Send Your Holy Spirit to help others to respond generously and courageously to Your call.
May our community of faith support vocations of sacrificial love in our youth and young adults. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with You in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God, forever and ever.
Amen.
Vocation resources
If you or someone you know is contemplating a vocation, talk with your pastor, reach out to the diocese’s vocations promoter, read up on consecrated life and the various religious communities that exist, and contact communities that interest you. Many offer “come and see” days or retreats that are opportunities to learn more and meet others who have accepted God’s call to religious life.
For young men and women, there are summer discernment retreats offered by the Diocese of Charlotte and hosted at Belmont Abbey College: Quo Vadis Days for young men, and Duc in Altum for young women. Information about 2025 retreats is posted online at www.charlottediocese.org/vocations.
Diocesan Vocations Office
- Father Christopher Gober, Vocations Director: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
- Father Brian Becker, Vocations Promoter: This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
General information
- www.foryourvocation.org: Set up by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, dedicated to the promotion of vocations to the priesthood and consecrated life for both men and women. They are also on Facebook and YouTube. There are resources for parents and teachers, questions to ask yourself if you feel God is calling you, videos of vocation stories from priests and religious all over the U.S., and more.
Considering becoming a deacon?
If you are interested in serving as a permanent deacon in the Charlotte diocese, visit www.charlottediocese.org/vocations/diaconate to learn more about who deacons are, what they do, and how to become one.
Ready to take the next step? Contact Deacon William Schreiber, formation director, at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..